Sir Ewen wrote:In fact, how many people know of Vemion's marriage to Bresyn? We learned it, after all, from Ewen clairvoying Vemion.
I don't think it's been publicized. If there was a tourney in Thilisa's mother's name, people would ask and the fact would probably come out-in a rather awkward way for Vemion.
Sir Ewen wrote: Should Ewen brief Thilisa on the marriage, and on the source of the fire which drove her from her boudoir? Might get her behind the tournament idea. Big picture question: how much do we want to involve Thilisa in the war with Vemion?
Not very much, or she might begin to suspect she's a pawn in said fight. Tom's right; you have to give her some attention, and refresh that connection. If we can find a realistic excuse for our knowledge of her father's remarriage, it might help to tell her. In fact, the proper way to do this might be to first tell her of the remarriage and then suggest holding the tourney to her mother's honor. Could get some big brownie points.
My impression is that Thilisa is an active personality. She's going to want to feel she's a major player in her own life, and she's probably feeling somewhat frustrated in that regard while pregnant. Ewen should step carefully around her, because once the baby arrives, she's going to want to be active again quickly.